


My grief, through my experiences before it and handling it, became the foundation for the rest of my life. I have to admit without the support I received, from my wife in particular, I fear that fate may not have been out of the realm of possibility for me.Īs I worked on my grief, I built a new life, new coping methods, and new perspectives around my grief. He died from complications from alcohol poisoning a few years in. A friend of a close friend of ours who went through a very similar experience to my sisters and I met that fate. Building that was hard work, and it took a long time.

It’s manageable because of what I have built around it. Maybe it was just that I didn’t want to plumb those depths if I didn’t have to. All other donations will be allocated to social and/or counseling services in the West Seattle area.” Full details here. You can contribute to a GoFundme “ Hunter’s charitable giving idea was to ensure youth in need had at least one nice piece of name-brand clothing they could feel good about wearing, a portion of the funds raised will go to this cause. I feel deeply for his family and friends. I hope everyone can be supportive of them in this extraordinarily difficult time. Hunter used to take care of our plants when we were away-starting back when he was 12! He was only 17. My wife and I are friends with his parents, and his family is neighbors. The recent loss of our friend and neighbor, Hunter Dilley, just over a week ago reminded me of those fresh days of grief-the abject torture. Maybe the nature of grief itself?Įither way, I wanted to write this because people have said the blog has helped. I’ve meant to write this for a while, and I’m unsure what the roadblock was. Herein lies an update on my journey with the grief imposed on me by the loss of my beloved parents in 2015.
